Several years ago, a movie came out called This is 40. Do you remember it? I made the weird choice of watching it (I was in my late 20’s at the time) and found it more depressing than comedic. In fact, I don’t think I laughed at all. ‘Watched in horror’ and ‘silently cried’ were probably more appropriate ways to describe my reaction to the movie.
With that said, I think it hit on a good point about your 40’s: they are this middle ground in your life that hit somewhat unexpectantly early (middle aged is after 50, isn’t it?) and can almost be a tipping point. This is the only age decade that is solely NOT about you.
Think about it. Your kids are in middle school or high school and you are a taxi service/therapist/referee/short order cook. Promotions in your job mean that you have more responsibility and more expected from you at work. Your spouse and friends still want your love and attention (because, you...
It’s an age-old question and, quite honestly, a very fine balance: how to look sexy- without looking sleazy
Let’s face it. There are times we love to dress up and look pretty. Who doesn’t like looking pretty?
But as a stylist that works with people to find the perfect outfits, one question crops up every time when we are discussing going out/date night/sexier looks (whatever you want to call them!).
IS IT TOO MUCH?
As women, how many times have we gotten dressed for a night out (or even a coffee date if I’m being honest) and thought, “Is this too much?” You may not be necessarily dressed like Julia Roberts in Pretty Woman pre-Gere (aka a prostitute) but that doesn’t mean you can’t still question the ‘too muchness’ of your outfit. The ‘is this too much?’ question is usually seen hanging out with the ‘is this age appropriate?’ question- but more on that later.
In my humble (30-something-year-old) opinion, I think your 30’s are the most underrated decade of your life.
A bold statement? Yes, but hear me out.
During the years between 29 and 40, you have an exciting mix of life events, available opportunities, and deeper self-awareness. You’re probably making more money than you have in the past and are starting to get to the part of your career that is more than an entry level job that you sludge through to pay the bills. Your body is still in decent shape, and you might be able to continue pulling off fashions from college. On top of all that, you are really starting to figure out who you are and you are doing lots of fun exciting things like getting married and having families.
Maybe I’m an optimist, (okay, no maybe’s here. I’m definitely an optimist) but I think the third decade on earth is pretty good. However, like every other decade, the 30’s bring their whole new slew of...
Plaid is a huge trend this Fall and here are just a few reasons why I love it (and think you should too):
1. It’s classic. If you don’t believe me, just look at Burberry. They are proof that a plaid can stay fashionable for decades (when done right, of course).
2. Any age can wear plaid! Continue reading to see how.
When I was prepping for this post, I considered all the different ways I could show outfits for every age. I thought about just collaging pictures of outfits together online, but that seemed so…unrelatable (and a little boring).
So instead, I decided to go to everyone’s favorite store, Target and put together plaid outfits. That means that all the pictures below are made from clothing exclusively from my local store (Athens, Georgia, if you’re wondering).
It was a bit difficult to bring in a million outfits and accessories into the dressing rooms, so I left the purses and...
"I can't wear shorts, I'm too old for that"
It's a comment I hear often from women over the age of 50 (and sometimes over the age of 40!)
They feel that hitting a certain number automatically takes away their right to wear specific types of clothing. Well folks, I'm here to tell you that it just isn't true.
Saying you can't wear shorts over a certain age is just as ridiculous as saying someone over a certain size shouldn't wear a swimsuit.
I understand that you want to look age-appropriate, but I have a little secret for you. It's possible to wear shorts at any age and look age-appropriate.
1. Choose the right length
Obviously, you don't want to wear daisy dukes, but just because you're older doesn't mean you have to wear Bermuda shorts. Finding the right length for your body is key to looking age-appropriate in shorts. Essentially, you want your shorts to be no higher than where the inside muscle of your leg ends. To find that spot, stand in a superman pose with your...
It's great knowing your body shape, but if you don't know what to DO with that information, it can be quite pointless. That's why I've written a series of blog posts that will help you always find the perfect outfit.
The first post is going to be about the pear-shaped body. A pear-shaped body (also sometimes called a 'spoon' shape) is the most common shape along with the apple. So, if you think you're the only one who struggles to find dresses that fit your bust AND your hips, you're not alone.
Keep reading to find out:
Please note that this post contains affiliate links. I use affiliate links in the form of clothing suggestions in order to help you best discover (and locate!) clothing that will work best for your body shape. If you click on the affiliate...
An apple-shaped body (also sometimes called an 'oval' shape) is the most common shape along with pear. So, if you think you're the only one who struggles with extra weight around your waistline, you're not alone.
I'm one of the only women I know (besides my mom…hmmm) whose extra weight doesn't go straight to their thighs and butt. Nope. It goes directly to my mid-section. And then it hangs out there as long as I'll let it. I think the record time was two years (I gained my freshmen 15 when I was a senior in college…you, know…because I'm an overachiever).
When I look back at pictures from my senior year in high school and freshmen year in college, I can't help but laugh. I had no idea what to wear. I wasn't used to having an extra fifteen pounds around my middle and my outfits confirmed that.
Note: I just spent 30 minutes looking through high school/college pictures for a hilarious example of said outfits. I...
Rectangle shaped bodies have been called many other things over the years including 'athletic shaped' and 'boy body shaped'. I don't have a problem with the athletic shape thing, but boy body??? What is the difference between the body of a boy and a girl (literally, pre-pubescent they look pretty much the same). Although, to be fair, I also wouldn't want to have a 'girl shaped body'. That's weird. So, let's just call it rectangle and stick with that.
Now it's time for me to tell you how great a rectangle body is. Did I just see an eye roll? Pull yourself together woman, I'm serious. You know why? Because rectangles can pretty much wear anything.
Let me explain. Rectangles are usually thinner and straight up and down. In other words, there are less curves to deal with. You know want that results in? The perfect frame to showcase clothing.
Have you ever wondered why 99.9% runway models (except Naomi Campbell who is an inverted triangle) are rectangles? It's because it's...
Different styles throughout the decades tend to favor various body shapes. The 60's claimed the rectangle, the 80's the pear, and the 40's were great for apples- to name a few. What about the hourglass, though?
If you're an hourglass and you're feeling left out because the decade of styles that looked best on your were from the 1950's...DON'T. Your time has come again.
Thanks to the Kardashians, the hourglass shape is back in and hotter than ever. This is especially good news for extreme hourglasses (ie: you're curvier than most) who might have trouble finding outfits to fit their bodies.
So, no matter what you think about the Kardashian kids, give them your thanks, because their celebrity status is driving fashion trends (which means you don't have to rely on 'retro' style clothing to make your body look as incredible as it is!)
Keep reading to find out:
When I was a competitive swimmer in my childhood, aka: pre-puberty (before the hips joined the party), I was as inverted triangle shaped as you got.
I may have been only ten, but I knew something looked off when I looked in the mirror (why is my head so small? Why are my shoulders so big and the rest of me is tiny?) However, being ten, I wasn't quite smart enough to figure out that it was because I WAS A CHILD and SWAM 24/7. This is all quite funny now.
Although I've grown up (and have consequentially become an apple, spoon, and hourglass during different life stages), it is still a very personal thing for me to help women who have a negative body image because they are inverted triangles.
If you loathe your wide shoulders or big bust, YOU'RE THINKING ABOUT IT ALL WRONG. Your shoulders and bust are a positive, not a negative. In fact, you look incredible, so there are no negatives....only glorious opportunities. One of those opportunities is that you can go crazy with...